The family contract
Family contracts are effective
in setting out expectations and responsibilities, especially
those that identify rules for both parties — you and
your teen. And a contract that documents specific rules and
restrictions will leave no room for misinterpretation.
Once you've identified your
house rules, discuss them with your teen and complete the
family contract. Decide together what the consequences should
be if you or your teen breaks the rules. The consequences
may vary depending on which rule has been broken.
We've included a sample
contract and a blank contract
for you and your teen to use.
- Be open to negotiation on some points.
- Be firm on those rules that are important
to you.
- Limit or prohibit driving until your
teen signs the contract.
- Ensure both parents are in agreement
with rules.
- Be sincere in meeting your contract
terms.
- Determine how often you will review
the contract based on amount of driving your teen is doing.
